Sex-panding your horizons!

We have come a long way from the conservative times of the puritans, HOWEVER, it seems that the topic of sex has remained relatively tabu especially between partners.   How are couples supposed to grow and evolve sexually with no open communication between lovers?   The other question becomes, “why do we need to grow sexually? I am satisfiedwith the way things are.” Well you might be satisfied but are you sure your partner is? If there is any doubt when thinking about this question then don’t you owe it to your partner to be open minded to the idea of growth and exploration?   So many women complain that their husbands stare at the twenty something’s that walk by or are caught watching porn…Well what do you expect!?! They are probably fantasizing about something new that they are not experiencing currently. Most younger men and women are more open to trying new things. That is the bottom line. No, it’s not always because they might be better looking or have a “tighter body”. Your partner was attracted to you for a reason. You are still together for a reason. It is human nature to get bored with even the best if it becomes repetitive.   Take someone that just bought the car of their dream. They have longed for this car for years and after saving and dreaming about the car and maybe even some sacrifices, they finally got it! They drive it carefully and take good care of it, but after a while it is no longer their dream car. It becomes just…a car. Soon they see a new car that looks more fun and exciting. That new car might have more to offer than the “former car of their dreams.” Unfortunately, the old car cannot change itself to become more exciting or to look different. But you can!   Now, I’m not saying you need to change who you are and the way you look, but try surrendering yourself to your partner, the one you supposedly would do anything for, in in a way that grows you physically.   It’s all perspective. It may seem uncomfortable or embarrassing to put yourself out there and be vulnerable, but, the effort alone to be more adventurous will speak VOLUMES to your partner. Remember, this is the person you care about most right? Many people talk the talk and say, “I would do anything for this person,” but when it comes to the simple task of changing it up in the bedroom most become reluctant. The fear of being vulnerable in front of their partner takes over and slowly they psych themselves out.   There is a simple solution, when it comes to sex with your partner, don’t think,  just do.   Let love shine, Sensitive Flower